Please consider this your cordial invitation to work with me. I offer 1:1 Consultations, Online Dating Profile Creation and Advice, 15-minute Quick Questions, and, perhaps the most fun of all, I lead a Dating Advice Community where we meet weekly to discuss your specific dating questions and situations, post questions and get answers (from me) as they arise, vent, share stories, and cheer each other’s successes.

I’ve been a Rules Dating Coach for 10 years now and I just love it. This dating advice has helped me, my clients, and some of my closest friends stop wasting our time on the wrong men and meet and marry our Mr. Rights. I’ve known The Rules for 20 years, but I didn’t completely follow them for a while. I tested them, broke them, put them on a shelf for a while (knowing better the whole time), and then finally exited a toxic relationship and dove back into them- so much so that I just had to get certified in them. So not only am I certified in them, but I can attest that they’re tried-and-true. Over the years, I’ve seen many happy clients walk down the aisle to their own happily ever after.

We know all too well how men will waste years of your time, let you spoil them, even let you pay the bills while they never intend to marry you. If you find yourself bending over backward to make a man happy, I get it. So much of the bad dating advice out there is dispensed by well-meaning people who love us, but don’t really know the consequences of their suggestions. “Just talk to him.” “Make him a dinner that will knock his socks off.” “It’s too old-fashioned to wait a while to hit the sheets.” “Tell him how you feel.” “Just text him.” “Tell him you want to be married and have kids on the first date- no point wasting your time- or his.” I doubt I need to tell you that this sort of advice backfires. The men feel trapped and “need some space” or let you dote on them for a few months until he loses interest, but then dumps you for a woman who’s never seen the inside of a kitchen. Whatever it is, it’s exhausting always being the one to put in the effort and being confused when it doesn’t work out. And the less said about the dating apps, the better- although… There are many hacks so I do actually have a lot to say. And, actually, I met my husband on Tinder of all places- so it IS possible!

I can’t say enough good things about this framework that makes dating SO much easier. It removes the guesswork and lets you see things clearly. Whether you’re already schooled in The Rules or just curious to dip your toe in a new empowering way to date, you’re welcome to contact me for a consultation and/or join my community.

🌸The Rules Room- a Dating Support Community🌸

This one is my favorite. You are also cordially invited to join me in a little corner of the internet I built for us. I’m starting a The Rules Room. It’s a Dating Advice Community that will Zoom live twice weekly -with 2 wildly different meeting times to accommodate time zones and different schedules- to chat about The Rules, vent, support each other, and solve your specific dating woes. It’s small right now, as all new groups are- but joining the waitlist gets you in early at a Founder’s rate that will never go up- for however long you’re a member. I’ve also included a couple other Founder’s perks. It’s not open yet but…

🌸The doors open August 18!🌸

People on the waitlist will get first dibs, early access, and the lowest price it will ever be. And it’ll be locked in for as long as you’re a member of the community.

When the doors open to the public:

• The price will be going up
• Certain spots will be limited
• And then you’ll be sitting there like “ugh I wish I had joined the waitlist when I had the chance.”

Consultations

If you’d like to book a private session, perhaps you need to:

• Study your past dating behavior and make a plan for the future.
• Learn to spot a man who is a Time-Waster or Buyer Beware.
• Determine your current beau’s true intentions: Is he a Next! or will he propose?
• Brainstorm about how and where to attract a man in your location.
• Get back out into the dating world.
• Discuss what it means to be a Creature Unlike Any Other (CUAO).
• Determine whether you are in a Rules relationship.
• Review The Rules you have forgotten or broken and create a plan to move forward.
• Clarify questions about specific Rules and practice some dialogue for those situations.
• Talk about how to juggle the growing world of technology while dating.
• Create an online dating profile.
• Explore which dating site/s is/are most suitable for you.
• Make you over to be the best CUAO you can be…
• Or whatever is most pressing!

Services I offer:

To book a 60-minute Zoom Consultation, click the button below. 👇🏻 It will take you to my Calendly page so you can schedule a time that’s convenient for you. I am in the Eastern (New York) Time Zone, but I can be flexible with scheduling. If you need a different time, please email me at therulesroom@advicebyalicia.com and we can work out a convenient time.

$120

To book a 60-minute Online Dating Profile Setup, click the button below.👇🏻 Here we can create an appropriate online dating profile, answer appropriate profile questions, choose pictures (or discuss pictures to take), and discuss general dating app strategy. It will take you to my Calendly page so you can schedule a time that’s convenient for you. I am in the Eastern (New York) Time Zone, but I can be flexible with scheduling. If you need a different time, please email me at therulesroom@advicebyalicia.com and we can work out a convenient time.

$120

Have a burning question? To book a 15-minute Quick Question, click the button below. 👇🏻 I will be in touch to schedule a time to chat via phone. The button will take you to my Calendly page so you can schedule a time that’s convenient for you. I am in the Eastern (New York) Time Zone, but I can be flexible with scheduling. If you need a different time, please email me at therulesroom@advicebyalicia.com and we can work out a convenient time. QQ’s should not exceed 15 minutes.

$30

Disclaimer: I am not licensed to practice psychology, and The Rules is not intended to replace psychological counseling, but is simply a dating philosophy based on my own experiences and those of thousands of women who have used The Rules in the past.

By booking a session with me, you agree to the terms and conditions.