About The Rules

The Rules (TM) are a dating philosophy. They started as tradition and were passed from woman to woman by word-of-mouth… until Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider decided to write it down and publish it. Since then, they have been featured on Oprah, CNN, Bethany, the list goes on! It’s tried and true and available to you. You can find these fine ladies at http://therulesbook.com.

So how do you know if you need The Rules? Well…

Are you tired of getting your heart broken?

Is your longterm man still spending your time and not proposing? Or not naming the date?

Have you been incredibly nice and giving in a relationship that gave nothing in return?

Do men seem spoiled these days?

Are your friends and family on your case about getting married?

Are you tired of putting on the makeup and heels and traveling out of your way for men that are a complete waste of time? Wouldn’t it be amazing to be able to weed them out more quickly?

Are you confused by men’s behavior?

Do men seem to give mixed messages?

Do you wish you could tell how he really feels about you?

Does this sound familiar?

The conversation is amazing. He wants to spend all of his time with you for 2, maybe 3 weeks, maybe longer. He takes you on exciting and romantic dates. Tells you where his parents got engaged oh so many years ago and suggest that, someday, the two of you might go. You think, “Well, he seems really interested. He wouldn’t tell me about his parents unless he was serious. He’s already told me he wants to have 3 kids and a dog…” You have a lot in common. You talk and text everyday. He’s got the stamp of approval from your friends. You make dinner together. Maybe you sleep with him. (Because you’re right, it doesn’t make you a slut, and sex shouldn’t be a bargaining chip.) Then bam! Suddenly he’s sooo busy with work and can’t go out this week. Or he says he knows himself and his weaknesses and he “just can’t be monogamous.” Or he just stops calling altogether, leaving you wondering what you’ve done wrong…

All of these questions have answers. Let me tell them to you.

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