Head over to My Calendar to schedule a consult with me!

During a Consultation we can:

Study your past dating behavior and make a plan for the future.

Learn to spot a man who is a Time-Waster or Buyer Beware.

Determine your current beau’s true intentions: Is he a Next! or will he propose?

Brainstorm about how and where to attract a man in your location.

Get you back out into the dating world.

Discuss what it means to be a Creature Unlike Any Other  (CUAO).

Determine whether you are in a Rules relationship.

Review The Rules you have forgotten or broken and create a plan to move forward.

Clarify questions about specific Rules and practice some dialogue for those situations.

Talk about how to juggle the growing world of technology while remaining a CUAO.

Create a Rules-y online dating screen name and profile.

Explore which dating site/s is/are most suitable for you.

Make you over to be the best CUAO you can be…

And more!


Head over to my My Calendar and schedule a consult with me!


Please specify your Consultation preference using the drop down menu below.

Consultations can be conducted via phone, email, or in a virtual meeting. In-person consults are on hold due to COVID as I have a baby (ineligible for vaccine). I can also field quick questions (QQ) via phone or email.

If you could like a Phone Consultation, Virtual Meeting, or Phone QQ:

Please indicate in the “Comment” section a couple of times that would be convenient for you to set aside 15, 30, or 60 uninterrupted minutes for our consultation. I will be in touch via email to schedule a time for your QQ, phone consultation, or virtual meeting. Payment should be posted before our consultation begins. Please let me know if you prefer Zelle, Venmo, or PayPal. (If we do not use all of the time you’ve purchased, we can save it as a credit toward another session.) Please include your Quick Question in the box below.

If you choose an In-Person Consultation: **ON HOLD due to COVID**

In-Person Consultations will take place at a mutually convenient location. I am located in the New Jersey/New York area. Please include your contact information and a couple of convenient dates and I will be in touch to schedule our Consultation.

If you choose an Email Consultation:

I will be in touch via email to send you a questionnaire to complete so I can give you specific advice based on your current situation. Please let me know if you prefer Zelle, Venmo, or PayPal. After I receive the completed questionnaire and the payment posts, I will email a thorough, personalized response within 48 hours, complete with tailored advice for your next steps!

If you choose an Email QQ:

Please include your question in the box below. Please let me know if you prefer Zelle, Venmo, or PayPal. After your payment posts, I will email a personalized response within 24-48 hours.

Disclaimer: I am not licensed to practice psychology, and The Rules is not intended to replace psychological counseling, but is simply a dating philosophy based on my own experiences and those of thousands of women who have used The Rules in the past.