Here are some super helpful resources I have whipped up just for your sweet faces.

🌸The Rules Room🌸

This one is my favorite. You are also cordially invited to join me in a little corner of the internet I built for us. I’m starting a The Rules Room. It’s a Dating Advice Community that will Zoom live twice weekly -with 2 wildly different meeting times to accommodate time zones and different schedules- to chat about The Rules, vent, support each other, and solve your specific dating woes. It’s small right now, as all new groups are- but joining the waitlist gets you in early at a Founder’s rate that will never go up- for however long you’re a member. I’ve also included a couple other Founder’s perks. It’s not open yet but…

✨The doors open August 18!✨

People on the waitlist will get first dibs, early access, and the lowest price it will ever be- locked in for as long as you’re a member of the community.

When the doors open to the public:

• The price will be going up
• Certain spots will be limited
• And then you’ll be sitting there like “ugh I wish I had joined the waitlist when I had the chance.”

Here are my other resources- all chock full of good stuff:

1.) Take the Guesswork out of Dating will guide you through what to do before, during, and after a date to avoid common (catastrophic) mistakes. Because you deserve way more than those jokers that are going to waste your precious time. Inside you’ll find:

Pro tip: Print it and post it wherever you get ready for dates so it’s fresh in your head when you head out

2.) Learning to Pace a Relationship is the third treat I created for you. Pacing is an important part of dating- especially in the beginning. It prevents him from getting too much from you too soon and fizzling out or ghosting AND gives him enough time to develop real feelings. This guide could be the difference between getting ghosted and getting married. Inside there’s answers to:

• What is an appropriate first date location?
• If we’ve been dating for 2 months, how many times per week can I see him?
• Should I go to his place yet?
• When can I spend a week away with him?

And SO MUCH MORE. This chart is chef’s kiss if I do say so myself.

3.) The Dating Style Quiz. will take you about 10 minutes. It’ll tell you your dating style and gives you some pointers in your results. Do you have a method or are you flying by the seat of your pants?

4.) Here’s my QR Code. It’ll take you to everything (My LinkTree). If you’re on your phone, you can click on the Code because I embedded a link. Or you can take a screenshot to come back later.

  

Let me know what you think! And if you have questions, I’m only a DM @advice.by.alicia (on Insta or TikTok) or email away therulesroom@advicebyalicia.com 🤗

As I have mentioned, The Rules(TM) started out as being passed from woman to woman by word-of-mouth. To benefit a wider audience, Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider wrote The Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right. It was a HUGE success. So much so that women contacted them with many, many questions: “What about this?” “What about that?” “What about turning a friend into a boyfriend?” “What if we work together?” Because of this they released the second book, The Rules II. After that, and with the growing world of technology and the Internet, more questions rolled in: “Online dating?” “Texting?” “Email?” Since then, they have released three more books. You can find them on Amazon.com by clicking the link below.

Books I and II have been combined into one:

Paperback: All the Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right

Kindle Version: All the Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right

Paperback: The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace

Kindle Version: The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace

Paperback: Not Your Mother’s Rules: The New Secrets for Dating (The Rules)

Kindle Version: Not Your Mother’s Rules: The New Secrets for Dating (The Rules)

Paperback: The Rules for Marriage: Time-Tested Secrets for Making Your Marriage Work

Kindle Version: The Rules(TM) for Marriage: Time-tested Secrets for Making Your Marriage Work